Feng Shui Relationships / Love / Marriage

By Jessie Kim

If you are looking to improve or establish a loving relationship and you are willing to give Feng Shui a try, you need to read on.

I am a 3rd generation Feng Shui expert and I have helped thousands of people find the love that they have always dreamed about.

Love Corner Overview

In Feng Shui, make changes to the Relationships & Love Corner to find love that you may have never previously known.

You can also rekindle the love that you once had.

Heck, even if all you’re looking for is some (ahem) fun, this is the area for you to pay some attention.

• Best Element: Fire
• Complementary Element: Metal
• Best Color: Pink
• Complementary Colors: Red & White
• Best Shapes: Pointed or Triangular
• Complementary Shapes: Rounded or Spherical
• Enhancements: Items in Pairs, Romantic Decor, Your Bedroom

After walking into your space through the front door, look to the back-right corner. This is your Love & Relationships Corner.

According to Feng Shui, your bedroom is also considered to be part of the Relationships & Love Area, regardless of where it is located in your floorplan.

Moreover, your bedroom should be a place for relaxation and romance – a place for calm energy.

While much of what I talk about here will be specific to your bedroom, you should also put a similar amount of care into the far-right corner of your Bagua, as appropriate to the space.

I will get to the things that you should have in your bedroom and the Relationship Corner, but first we need to make some space.

These are few of the things that you need to avoid in your bedroom and relationship corner:

No Mirrors

Remove or cover all mirrors in your bedroom, as mirrors reflect all the negative energy back to you while you sleep.

A mirror is always reflecting things, so in Feng Shui it’s considered to be an active item, which is not recommended for a bedroom.

If you do have mirrors in your room, it is likely that your mind is always active, preventing you from getting a good night of rest. Mirrors could even be the cause of your restless legs, headaches, or other body pains.

No Plants or Fountains

For similar reasons, water fountains, fresh flowers, and plants are not recommended for the bedroom, either.

Plants emit yang (active) energy that can disturb sleep while yin (calm) energy is what you need.

No Family Pictures

Avoid family pictures in your bedroom, as your bedroom should be a very private place.

It is the place for you and your partner, so try to minimize the pictures of your children, friends and especially your in-laws!

Looking at those pictures while in bed does not let your mind wander away, relax, and fully enjoy your partner. In fact, you might get some creepy or embarrassing vibes.

If you must have religious pictures and items in your bedroom (there are better places), they should also be placed so that they are not seen from your bed.

No Work or Fitness

Work and love just don’t mix. You should never keep your work desk or computer in your bedroom, even if you feel like you don’t have room elsewhere.

Once again, the bedroom is for rest and relaxation – yin energy. Your office should have the yang energy.

Home offices in the bedroom bring too much active energy into what should be a very passive room.

If there is no other place to have a home office but in your bedroom, then make sure that you can put the computer and all the work items away before going to bed so you don’t see them from your bed.

The same goes for any exercise equipment, as well. Again, it’s an active energy that needs to be put away before bed.

And don’t just tuck it under your bed because that active energy will just provide you with an active mind at night.

No Sad, Lonely, or Cold Imagery

Avoid images, artwork, or other items that evoke a sadness or loneliness.

For example, don’t have pictures of an ex, storms, pictures of dead flowers, a desolate winter landscape, a lonely person, etc.

Moreover, don’t have anything cold in your bedroom or relationship corner, either figuratively or literally. For example, avoid freezers, air conditioning units, ice coolers, refrigerators, etc.

If there is no avoiding having a refrigerator or other cold unit in these areas, warm it up with a red rug, pictures of a burning fire, and/or pictures of romantic couples plastered all over it.

No Single Items or Games

In Relationship Feng Shui, it is absolutely critical not to have single items.

Examples of things to avoid would be a single lamp or candle on your bedside tables or in the Relationship Corner.

Even if you are single, don’t just have one towel hanging in the bathroom.

Have everything in pairs. Make your partner (real or imagined, at this point) feel like they are an equal to you in this space.

Furthermore, if you want to avoid games and drama in your love life, avoid any kind of games, such as video games or board games, in this area.

No Symbols of Loneliness

On my consultations, I have noticed that the most sad and lonely hearts are those who have pictures of a single and lonely woman on their wall or some other symbol of loneliness.

The environment you create for yourself will be the environment in which you live, both in the home and out.

No Clutter

If you want to find true love, clean your Relationship area!

Yes, a good old fashioned cleaning is great for finding love in Feng Shui.

Don’t forget to remove all the clutter.

To better focus on finding true love, get rid of everything from prior relationships, especially unhappy ones.

You don’t want to start a new relationship with old, emotional baggage.

Even if you are over that past relationship, don’t hold on to the objects that represent that relationship. Just keep the good memories (somewhere other than here) and let everything else go.

Whew! Now that we’ve cleared some space, let’s talk about good things for your bedroom or relationship corner.

Colors of Love

Pink is the color of romance in life, art, and Feng Shui.

You can use light pink, hot pink, or any kind of pink.

You can have pink heart pillows, wall paint, carpet, accent pieces, etc.

Listen, I am not saying that you need to make your room look like a giant bottle of Pepto Bismol exploded. I did this and it totally worked, but you don’t have to if pink isn’t your color. Instead, you can simply put a dash of pink, if you want.

White and red are also excellent relationship colors because they mix to make pink and are also quite romantic.

Love Symbols

You can also have love symbols such as cupids, hearts, lovebirds, pictures of loving couples and especially things in pairs.

Two pink candles, two wine glasses, two pillows, two sitting chairs, two tickets to Hawaii, etc.

Be creative.

Think of all the romantic things and places you want to do and go with your true love.

Positive Environment

In closing, and as with any area of your home that you want to improve, create an energy in your surroundings that will be a positive influence on you to achieve what you are looking for.

The pairs concept is really important to nearly every area in your home if you want to spend your life with someone special. The big exception here is the Fame & Reputation Area where you need to be #1 with single items.

I remind you that the environment you create for yourself will be the environment in which you live.

May you find or reignite the most special kind of love that you can imagine.

Next Steps

Don’t focus on just one area of the Bagua. Rather, continue on your journey by learning about the Creativity / Children / Fertility Area.

Do you have a unique situation at your home or office?

Are you missing the Love Corner from your floor plan or does it have a dangerous item, such as a bathroom, fireplace, or garage?

Are you looking to improve your love life or find that special someone?

Then contact Ms. Feng Shui right now to inquire about a Feng Shui Consultation so I can add harmony and balance to your life. It will be the best investment you ever make.

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